Learning continues...

There isn’t any limit when it comes to talking about women, and that is the reason, I am continuing my previous post. Bear with it. 
Most of us would have wondered why women make a big fuss of everything. FYI, women are the most kind hearted. Then, why do they do that. They don’t want to quarrel even for bigger issues and that is the reason they end up quarreling for everything. Women suppress their emotions, desires and behavior. And we witness these problems when they have become a volcano. At this stage, they can’t take it anymore. They are frustrated within, and don’t know how to show their emotions. That is the reason they are looked upon as quarrelsome. And one more thing, we would have tried to solve a problem, we would have discussed about it, that doesn’t mean that the problem is solved, be ready if the problem arises again. I don’t understand the logic behind it, but, it happens, so, never think that it is about a particular woman, it happens with most of them.
This post is not just for men; I think women should also learn if they find anything useful at all. Sometimes, we don’t know what is going on and why we behave so, that is the reason I have tried to bring them to light.
Now, what do men do if they have some problem, but, they don’t want to discuss about it, they go into their caves. They take a break in their caves and come back when they found the answer to their problem. Going to cave is nothing but, watching Television, reading newspaper, etc. So, I would suggest women not to disturb them when they are in caves.
Having said the differences, now, I would like to suggest something.
My dear ladies, spit out your problems early because if it is late you would be spitting venom even without your knowledge. The worst part of this venom is that it won’t kill anyone, but, it could kill the relationship. And my fellow men, try to smell the problems and solve them early.
I have mentioned all of them because I believe them to be true. And I wanted to share this, so that, it might help at least a few. I would be more than happy if someone else could add up to the qualities I have mentioned.

Life is beautiful, learn to preserve it

It’s been a long time since I posted anything. So, one of the reason for posting this is for my satisfaction.
I started this exactly three months back. However, for some unknown reason I didn’t finish it and therefore, didn’t post it.

This is how I started on 17th of October…..

Here I am again to help you pass your time, this ti........... Well, I don't wanna start the bull shit again, b'cos anyway you know I'm here to shit again.
I don't think anyone, even those closer to me wud hv heard those words from me. May be I used them cos I'm writing here out of the encouragement by my pal who is very fond of shit( I meant the words) or may be I'm doing it cos I got pissed off when I thought abt the shit ppl dropped on MS Dhoni. He continues to be the no. 1 in ODI rankings and yet they continue shitting on him. I am not a big fan of him, but I like him and I respect him for the way he came back when things were against him (remember wat happened to his construction after the WC). Anyway, I am not here to talk abt that crap. SO, I think its time to stop this shit.

I have been reading this book called "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus", and yesterday I saw this movie "Nadodigal". So, I jus thought of combining those two.
The movie talks abt wat a frnd can do or rather would do. But, I am not gonna talk abt frndship here.
I wanna talk abt the other part of the movie, which is abt love, how ppl think that love makes life beautiful, but, end it up in a disastrous way.

I agree love makes life beautiful, but, wat ppl need to understand is that life is always beautiful, it’s in our hands and it’s our choice to maintain it or make it worse.

Coming to the book, it talks abt why there starts a drift between the couples who think they are gonna live in heaven, but, end up in hell.
The book is simple, it jus tells us that once we understand that there is diff between male and a female, half of our problems stop there.

Wat Men need to understand is Women doesn't always "MEAN" (I have capitalized cos that is the important thing not for the other reason) wat they say, they jus want someone to listen to their problems not to get solutions. (For example – when a female says “you are an idiot”, it definitely doesn’t mean that, remember Hasini saying that. One more example – a couple would have gone for a hang out the previous week, but, if the husband is busy this week, she might complain that they haven’t gone out at all. She says that cos she is upset, but her counter part considers it to be false and starts arguing).

Men have a different quality. They talk about their problems when they feel they can’t handle that situation or when they can’t solve the problem. So, when the females tell their problems, they tend to give solution, rather than listening quietly. When this happens, the females complain that their better half isn’t listening. And men argue that if they aren’t listening they couldn’t have given the solution.
So, if Men stop using their "Mr. Fix It" cap to solve the problems, half of their problem is solved. So, fellow mates, stop solving the problems, jus listen to the crap, the way we listen in our classes (I mean acting).
According to the book, we should stop poking our nose in between cos that is not gonna do any good. Seems their mood is like wave. If they hit the trough they are gonna reach the crest again, so, allow them to hit the trough and clench your teeth until they reach the crest again.

And never tell a Woman that she shouldn't feel hurt. Cos telling a woman not to feel hurt is the worst thing you can say(and believe me I have experienced it). If you say that, they feel that you do not understand them or you do not listen to them. You have to wait for the right moment to do that.

Similarly, females love helping each other (at least helping the loved ones). So, whenever they smell a problem, they tend to give solutions. However, men do not like this. Men don’t like anyone helping them unless they ask for it. Therefore, when a female extend their arm to help, men feel that they are not being trusted. They feel that they are being doubted, or sometimes, they could end up thinking they are not capable.

Men need to be trusted and women need to be loved.

The reason I mentioned the movie’s name is that it depicts us the real scenario. It tells us that even small problems could end a relationship (well, I wanted to say it differently, but, I couldn’t get the right words).



Most of this and much more is in the book, I have jus tried to say whatever I liked or whatever I felt is important.

I never expected that I would write something like this and even now I don’t believe I did this. I have started it a long back; so, I just wanted to finish it off.


Waiting for you guys to bawl.